Alcohol + Phone = Oy Vey!

R.B. Winters
R.B. Winters
Grindr, Sex 0 Comments

Most of us have made the mistake of telling people what we think after one too many drinks. You have a feeling of heightened enlightenment and as you pound away at the keyboard, nothing has ever been said so perfectly. The next day you wake up to angry responses and relive your many auto-correct mistakes, only to pretend it never …

5 Years in the Making

R.B. Winters
R.B. Winters
Dating, Lobster 0 Comments

While first living in Brooklyn with my roomie, I met Lobster. He was living a short ride away on the illusive G train. Though the distance was short, we never actually went out after meeting and maintained a connection through text messages. Fast forward to the present and I agreed to a date…my first official date in a long while. …

Black Death

R.B. Winters
R.B. Winters
Foxxy Business, Lobster 1 Comment

My favorite moment the other night at dinner was when someone at the table asked me, “Why do you think you’re dead inside?” Without missing a beat, Business replied, “That’s a long story!” It was hilarious and so perfectly timed, though no one laughed. It’s like a little internal darkness is a bad thing. This leads me into what’s been …

Here We Go Again

R.B. Winters
R.B. Winters
Foxxy Business, Russian, Shew 6 Comments

Halloween and New Year’s are my favorite holidays. They are the holidays that celebrate the single person and punish families by forcing them to stay home with their children – just as the world intended. To celebrate the end of 2012 and beginning of a fresh year, Foxxy Business, Shew, the Russian, myself and others gathered at a friend’s apartment …