You Again

R.B. Winters
R.B. Winters
Bar, Beer, Ray Ray, Utah 0 Comments

My last post made it sound as if my visit to Utah was nothing but tender moments and sad memories. That was only at the end in retrospect. After my grandma’s birthday I had a very short time to fit in all the friends and family I could. It began with a trip to my first wife’s parent’s house. Parents …

I Need Some Sleep

R.B. Winters
R.B. Winters
Bar, Beer, Friends, Ray Ray, Utah 0 Comments

The place I call home is not where I was born, though I do have extended family from the area; perhaps that gives me the ability to fib and establish roots. The place I should call home is a place I ran away from years ago – leaving behind everyone I knew for everything I wanted. This weekend I returned …

Take Dirt…or Give it

R.B. Winters
R.B. Winters
Bar, Dating, Larrymore, Late Night, Russian 0 Comments

Larrymore, the Russian and I met at Ditmars Station and Pub Restaurant for what I intended to be a simple happy hour. The goal was to have a few cheap drinks and avoid the usual gay haunts, a.k.a. Hell’s Kitchen. My friends have more interesting dating lives in my mind. For instance Larrymore has the Hoboken boyfriend and the Bronx …

All Signs Point to Yes

R.B. Winters
R.B. Winters
Bar, Beer, Foxxy Business, Late Night 0 Comments

Business and I went out for what was meant to be a simple happy hour of cheap drinks and people watching. Beginning at Classic Boxers we poked fun at the less than stellar crowd before making the decision to control our musical destiny and hit up Boiler Room for their jukebox. I was also pissed because the incredibly hot bartender …

The Deep South

R.B. Winters
R.B. Winters
Dating, OkCupid, Sex, YeeHaw 0 Comments

It’s official, OkCupid is my new pimp. And it’s working out better than planned. Seeing that I live in a world constructed of my own imaginary rules and restrictions, OkCupid supplies an endless number of potential dates. YeeHaw is one such date, an actor/comedian born and bred in the South. This date in my mind was more of a challenge, …