Hero or Villain?

R.B. Winters
R.B. Winters
All, Banana, Dating Leave a Comment

I would say I fall into this category, and not necessarily for lack of trying, but mostly for lack of caring. In our present day, I am involved with a gentleman and it has been about six months. I credit the short lived longevity to our living situation. Banana lives in Minnesota…or Michigan…I have a hard time with the Upper …

Pee? Oui…

R.B. Winters
R.B. Winters
All, Bar, Birthday, Foxxy Business, Friends Leave a Comment

So, it did take me by even greater surprise when this new and odd shock came when visiting Austin, Texas. Now, Austin’s slogan is ‘keep Austin weird,’ but who would think they mean it so literally. Anyway, I was there with Business and his boyfriend to celebrate Business’ birthday. All pretty standard stuff. Tourism, drinks. Tourism, food, drinks. Tourism, drinks. …

While You Were Gone III

R.B. Winters
R.B. Winters
All, Mom Leave a Comment

Though this week, even though I’ve been down here for fifteen months really solidified the move. No longer wanting to fork out the hundreds of dollars for storage, I got rid of everything, keeping only a few boxes of things I couldn’t toss. The good news is everything I gave up is going to charity, so it gets a second …

FOMO NOMO

R.B. Winters
R.B. Winters
All, Opinion Leave a Comment

In the past week, I’ve realized somewhere along the way I’ve undergone a major change. Let me explain by giving some background…which you probably won’t need if you’ve read the older posts. All of my twenties were spent under the exhausting fear that I might miss out on something. I was the go-to friend if you needed someone to hit …

Terra[ble] Nova

R.B. Winters
R.B. Winters
All, Life, Opinion, San Juan Diaries Leave a Comment

Late in September, I began the process of purchasing a condo. Of course, it was no surprise  when the bank wanted all personal information, bank statements, tax returns and more. What was frustrating was the individual who was assigned to work with me. The entire process took sixty-five long days, and with the weeks in between of no communication, it …