Bagel

Date and Repeat

R.B. Winters
R.B. Winters
Break up, Bullseye, Dating, Google Guy Leave a Comment

How do we know when we like someone? Actually, the better question is, how do we know when someone likes us? The question comes up now as another guy bites the dust. After a lap around the Met, Google Guy sat in silence while I gnawed on a bagel and sipped at boiling hot coffee. As we left he said, …

Bullseye

Just say, “When.”

R.B. Winters
R.B. Winters
Break up, Bullseye, Dating Leave a Comment

Usually dating involves meeting someone, liking this someone, having fun together, falling into a state of boredom or resentment and climaxing with a break-up. What happened with Bullseye did not in any way, shape or sexy form, follow the pattern of dating as it is known to the world. Things ended in what I believe to be the most polite …

Broken Wine glass

Emotional Housekeeping

R.B. Winters
R.B. Winters
Break up, Bull Shit, Larrymore, Late Night, Ray Ray, Russian, Straights Leave a Comment

Last night the Russian hosted a casual dinner party, bringing together myself, Larrymore and our Straights. Jokes, one broken glass [this one not my fault] and an amazing dinner. But I still slipped out early. I wasn’t feeling great, the wine was helping, but I couldn’t shake an ick hovering over me. Once home I drank water only, which should …

break up

No You, Thank You.

R.B. Winters
R.B. Winters
All, Break up, Dating, Scruffy Leave a Comment

If you’re not officially dating, can you have a break-up? Or better, can you be dumped? I’ll say no, consider Scruffy and I only did whatever it was we were doing for a couple months. The other day when he called, I thought it was an opportunity to decompress and complain, it was actually a call-dumping/non-dumping. Over the last two …

Romy and Michelle

You’re Too Cold

R.B. Winters
R.B. Winters
All, Break up, Dating Leave a Comment

Now and then [mind you this is incredibly rare], you will meet a person who is just like you. They will have the same sense of humor and opinions, you’ll go on a date and possibly even label yourself as smitten. You’ll have a great night together and look forward to the second date. The second date arrives, you’ll do …