More Pressure, Please!

R.B. Winters
R.B. Winters
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In retrospect, this is the official summer of change. I gripe on often about how everything with people seems to change every two years. Well, things which don’t change, for me, with much regularity have been turned on their side. It all began early in the year when I started sending out resumes. After a decade of the same company, …

Where’s the Blow Up?

R.B. Winters
R.B. Winters
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I’m a talker about most things. Like every other human being on the planet, I share my opinions when and where I can. Usually online to people I will likely never meet. Isn’t that the safest way? Say your peace, close the laptop and move on to the next gripe. That’s an issue for another post. Let’s stay on track. …

Go Feel Yourself

R.B. Winters
R.B. Winters
All, Dating, Mr. Baltimore Leave a Comment

This came up recently when Mr. Baltimore said a simple statement, “I miss you.” This isn’t a life altering something, but it’s enough to make the wheels in my head turn in rapid succession. A normal person would likely repeat the sentiment and be on their way with a gleeful feeling. Not me, of course. No, I pause, consider what …

12 Years a Single

R.B. Winters
R.B. Winters
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I remember fondly when I wrote about dating and all of the amazing disasters associated. Then time passed and dating turned into dates. More time passed and dates turned into flings. Even more time passed and flings turned into random encounters stretched over even longer periods of time. Eventually it became more about social network cat photos than anything else. …

The point is, what?

R.B. Winters
R.B. Winters
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It has been a long time since I’ve actually dated. I’ve gone on a few dates, but each of those is a one-time deal, mainly resulting in friendships. This is not a complaint, some great friends have come from dates which fell flat. As of now there is a gentleman who is expressing what I believe to be genuine interest. …