The Gay “F” Word

R.B. Winters
R.B. Winters
Beer, Foxxy Business, Shew Leave a Comment

As a gay man you are likely, if it hasn’t happened already, going to be called a faggot. It’s probably going to happen many times in fact. Generally, I’m not too concerned with this…until yesterday. Foxxy Business, Shew and I were planning to attend Summer Streets, not realizing it wrapped up at 1 p.m. we arrived as the events were …

That’s a Wrap

R.B. Winters
R.B. Winters
Dating, Foxxy Business, Late Night, Russian Leave a Comment

As a control freak, it’s necessary to define everyone and everything. It was only fitting that I ask Late Night exactly what we’re doing from his point of view. Was this dating, an extended hook-up, what? Sparing you the lengthy details, we’re just “having fun.” Oddly enough that put my mind at ease and removed all of the stress. I …

The In-Between

R.B. Winters
R.B. Winters
Devil, Foxxy Business, Late Night, The Inventor Leave a Comment

Margarita Friday was held at a new bar due to the Internet Week happy hour taking place on the Lower East Side. The benefit is that the place was three blocks away from where one of my friend’s happens to be hosting. Cata, a tapas style restaurant, is a little bit amazing. The drink selection and appetizers are enough to …

Goin’ Green

R.B. Winters
R.B. Winters
Foxxy Business, Long Island, Shew, St. Patrick's Day Leave a Comment

St. Patrick’s Day is one of my favorite holidays, right up there with Halloween. Business and Sal came to my place for a quick pre-game before heading off to the bar. We stayed in my hood, which was unusual and sort of amazing because it was my saving grace a few hours later. Beginning at the bar my mother and …

Black Death

R.B. Winters
R.B. Winters
Foxxy Business, Lobster 1 Comment

My favorite moment the other night at dinner was when someone at the table asked me, “Why do you think you’re dead inside?” Without missing a beat, Business replied, “That’s a long story!” It was hilarious and so perfectly timed, though no one laughed. It’s like a little internal darkness is a bad thing. This leads me into what’s been …