The point is, what?

R.B. Winters
R.B. Winters
All, Dating, Opinion Leave a Comment

It has been a long time since I’ve actually dated. I’ve gone on a few dates, but each of those is a one-time deal, mainly resulting in friendships. This is not a complaint, some great friends have come from dates which fell flat. As of now there is a gentleman who is expressing what I believe to be genuine interest. …

The Californians

R.B. Winters
R.B. Winters
All, New York, Opinion, People, Puerto Rico Leave a Comment

Pre-Order today and save! Available 12/31/2017 on Amazon.com for Amazon Kindle and the Kindle app on iPhone and Android. #WelcometoHell #GoToHell http://a.co/4FLKpnA If you’ve been to New York, or know someone from New York, and California has ever come up in conversation, it is very likely your New Yorker has bitched about the state or the people of the state. …

FOMO NOMO

R.B. Winters
R.B. Winters
All, Opinion Leave a Comment

In the past week, I’ve realized somewhere along the way I’ve undergone a major change. Let me explain by giving some background…which you probably won’t need if you’ve read the older posts. All of my twenties were spent under the exhausting fear that I might miss out on something. I was the go-to friend if you needed someone to hit …

Terra[ble] Nova

R.B. Winters
R.B. Winters
All, Life, Opinion, San Juan Diaries Leave a Comment

Late in September, I began the process of purchasing a condo. Of course, it was no surprise  when the bank wanted all personal information, bank statements, tax returns and more. What was frustrating was the individual who was assigned to work with me. The entire process took sixty-five long days, and with the weeks in between of no communication, it …

Grow Up

R.B. Winters
R.B. Winters
All, Moving, Opinion Leave a Comment

My twenties were all about pushing my agenda. Doing things the most difficult way possible, to ensure I was doing exactly what I wanted. So, pretty much behaving like very other twenty year old in the country. I can’t say on the planet as I get the impression that the twenty-somethings aren’t as psychotic in other countries. Now, well into …