break up

No You, Thank You.

R.B. Winters
R.B. Winters
All, Break up, Dating, Scruffy 0 Comments

If you’re not officially dating, can you have a break-up? Or better, can you be dumped? I’ll say no, consider Scruffy and I only did whatever it was we were doing for a couple months. The other day when he called, I thought it was an opportunity to decompress and complain, it was actually a call-dumping/non-dumping. Over the last two …

Bloody Face

Give Me a Sign

R.B. Winters
R.B. Winters
Birthday, Dating, Larrymore, Late Night, Scruffy 0 Comments

There are two approaches, in my mind, when it comes to dating. You can put on a show of your best self, concealing the flaws and mess, or you can put everything out there and hope it doesn’t blow up in your face. With Scruffy, I’m taking the latter approach. Over the past few weeks I’ve just let the words …

Bad Cop

You Can’t Walk There

R.B. Winters
R.B. Winters
Bull Shit, New York, Scruffy 0 Comments

May I star off by asking if everyone is aware Central Park has a curfew? Having walked through it many, many times late at night to get home from the West Side, I am apparently oblivious to this 1 am rule. Scruffy and I had just finished a show at Birdland featuring Coco Peru. The show was highly entertaining and …

Lumpy Space Princess

Bad Behavior

R.B. Winters
R.B. Winters
Dating, Scruffy 0 Comments

Everyone has dating behavior. Girls flip their hair, wear push-up bras and paint their faces, while guys shave their backs and balls…or something like that. My dating behavior is more along the lines of trickery. While out on a first date and being asked about myself, I answer, but I answer in a way that ensures I feed you a …