More Pressure, Please!

R.B. Winters
R.B. Winters
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In retrospect, this is the official summer of change. I gripe on often about how everything with people seems to change every two years. Well, things which don’t change, for me, with much regularity have been turned on their side. It all began early in the year when I started sending out resumes. After a decade of the same company, …

PC Insanity

R.B. Winters
R.B. Winters
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When I first moved to New York the shift to a politically correct society was well underway. It seemed to be fueled by the crazed amount of obscene reality television taking over the airwaves. NYC felt like something of a protective bubble when it came to this movement of ideology. A place where it was completely acceptable and commonplace to …

FOMO NOMO

R.B. Winters
R.B. Winters
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In the past week, I’ve realized somewhere along the way I’ve undergone a major change. Let me explain by giving some background…which you probably won’t need if you’ve read the older posts. All of my twenties were spent under the exhausting fear that I might miss out on something. I was the go-to friend if you needed someone to hit …

Terra[ble] Nova

R.B. Winters
R.B. Winters
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Late in September, I began the process of purchasing a condo. Of course, it was no surprise  when the bank wanted all personal information, bank statements, tax returns and more. What was frustrating was the individual who was assigned to work with me. The entire process took sixty-five long days, and with the weeks in between of no communication, it …

Grow Up

R.B. Winters
R.B. Winters
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My twenties were all about pushing my agenda. Doing things the most difficult way possible, to ensure I was doing exactly what I wanted. So, pretty much behaving like very other twenty year old in the country. I can’t say on the planet as I get the impression that the twenty-somethings aren’t as psychotic in other countries. Now, well into …